My wife bless her has so much loving and understanding. I am still diapered at nights and put in plastic pants. Cloth diapering seems to be the right choice for us. It is such a relaxing feeling and so comfortable to fall to sleep wearing diapers and plastic pants. I'm still on the baby bottle and use my pacifer often. Love this lifestyle very much. I have been an ABDL all my life. Love reading the stories of others but do not have the time however.