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Trevor said:My only real argument with your post is the 50/50 of the outcome. I think to describe the whole spectrum of possible reactions as simply "acceptance" or "rejection" is simplistic and overly broad. Even accepting that, it would still not be 50/50, since many factors play into acceptance or rejection. This is why the common wisdom here often falls back to a "you know your parents best" position when presented with someone who has some solid reasons for tell but is still undecided.
Sorry Trevor, would have replied sooner but I was eating a pizza and lost track of your post. While I agree with your points, the reason why I stated 50/50 is because there is only one of two choices to this,
Your parents agree what you are doing.
Your parents don't agree what you are doing.
There is no higher dimension if your a good adult that you might influence your mom or dad to say, "Ok son, you can wear diapers" it does not work that way and the fact your building up courage to tell someone can be rather scary and if you choose to expose that side of you, just be cautious what will be coming to you. It is complex because it's not like you can look into the future and think, "hmm, I hope he says yes, oh god I am so excited!!!" You flip a penny and it's 50/50 that it will land on heads. The only signs you might know if you think you will get the answer you want is the fact how laid back your parents are. If you are one of those people with cool parents that agree with what you say, then your pretty good at getting the answer you pray for.