I have recently noticed a few threads starting about how you are telling your family or your not opening up to family about the AB or DL fantasies since it is 2015.
Just because it is a new year, of course with new years resolutions, does not mean it will be different if you open up to your family. There are some bad things and some good things you need to consider about opening up to family.
Before I continue, friends are different to open up to compared to family, you may lose a friend if they are not trustworthy but a family member will be with you all the time and that's alot of trust your breaking. The bad things about this you need to consider is this.
1: Therapy would be a most obvious answer from a family member if they think your going crazy nibbling on pacifiers or wearing diapers or even trying to squeeze into baby cruisers. Your mom or dad will not like the idea (possibly) so consider being extremely cautious about this one because there are probably some alternate ways besides therapy like grounding with no access to anything up to going to routine conventions.
2: Stress will be a likely cause when you expose yourself. You might tell your mom you are an AB/DL and she has no idea what you are talking about until it's too late and she is freaking out like crazy and questioning her mother methods. She thinks something is wrong with you and lots of feelings can get hurt. You will have stress upon you over this.
3: Last but not least, trust. That's a big bond you build with you and your family. When you do drugs or steal, either parents don't care and trust stays the same or they do care and they lost a huge chunk of it and you have to re-gain that back. While diapers are harmless, they will look at them as in you have a fetish going on as diapers are usually meant for babies or people with IC problems. They will immediately think you have a problem and that you are a different person to them and they will assume the worst.
These things will or will not happen if you expose your AB/DL side to your family. It is a 50/50 chance they will either accept you for who you are or be absolutely mad/furious at you. That is a risk your taking and for what it's worth, unless it's necessary like getting married, moving away, moving out, etc it's not worth telling. Some good things about telling them and they are accepting of you is that they might be willing enough to actually buy you supplies, glad that you are honest with them and you have more breathing room, walk around without absolute guilt about the entire idea but this is a cost/risk your taking and you might not get this option, again 50/50.
For all members on ADISC that make decisions everyday on thinking about telling, please be careful when you make that decision. Is it really worth it telling just to get guilt off of you and risk for something exciting where it might be really good or bad? It's a thing that should not involve our parents or does not even concern our parent's business but if we are either caught or if we expose, this is a high price to pay so be careful everyone.