So... I've decided to start exploring this.
I've been an AB sub for as long as I've been into ABDL and only click with Daddy Doms (which yes, really do vary from just any schmuck who claims to be an AB daddy).
Anyway, I think I have potential to be way more into the D/S BDSM lifestyle way more then ABDL, with maybe even ABDL only a byproduct of it to be used by a dom if necessary.
I know that is saying a lot, because I am so new at it. But the more I look into it, the more it makes sense to me that this is the sort of thing I desire, rather then being a baby or whatever. My true little side isn't sexual, but when I have a daddy taking care of me, or anybody dominant, it is usually sexual and I'm usually not in true little side anyways. I also say this because one of my biggest fantasies, even more so then ABDL, is black domination. I can explain that more if necessary. Please don't flame me for being racist, nobody can explain their own desires in my opinion.
Is anybody a "seasoned pro"? I need advice. I have been talking to quite a few Doms and I'm somewhat not sure of the protocol that subs should treat doms, even if they're not their masters. If there is protocol anyways. The Dom I am talking to laughed when we first started talking and said it was obvious I was new by the way I approached him.
I mean, I made my profile at fetlife and collarme, everything should be going swimmingly... but honestly, any thoughts, suggestions, advice, etc would be greatly appreciated.
By sub, by the way, I do mean slave, or close to it.