So, I've been thinking a lot on the sissy forum, recently. When Icey first suggested it I made no secret that I wasn't a big fan (thread here!), but I'm so glad to have seen it grow and prosper. I want to talk about why people identify as an other gender, and specifically the prevalance of people identifying as a different gender when in 'little mode'.
A lot of people who post on the sissy forum identify as a sissy-type in other areas of their life as well as their little side, whereas for others the idea of being a sissy is soley tied to their AB/DL/little side. A lot of men/boys are reluctant to share that side of theirselves, however it seems that for girls/women, being a tomboy is much more acceptable. Why is that? Why is it so much more ok for women to dress and act as boys, than it is for guys to dress and act as women?
And how prevailent is it for female gendered people to identify as a male in the AB/DL community? Is it a common thing? Is it an accepted thing?
How do you identify? And how do you feel about the apparent gender gap in being able to self identify your gender? (that's a logic bender if I've ever read one!)