A big part of ABDL for most of us is hiding it - finding a place to stash diapers, bottles, pacifiers, etc. I was just thinking, we talk about our ABDL issues with hiding it; what do you think vanillas (non-ABDL's) have to hide similarly to us? It makes me think about a sleepover, for example, where you tell your deepest, darkest secret, and we all think that ours is the most shocking and we must hide it more than anyone else must hide anything. But is this just fear and self consciousness? Let me know what you think.