So as the title says, I think my girlfriend might be AB, or at least some variant of. This is a genuine post and I'm here to hopefully find some advice Hopefully some of the more experienced of you will be willing to share any similar experiences you might have had in this area
I've been seeing an amazing girl for around 6 weeks, we trust eachother, get on very well and are now in love Not long after we got together, she told me that she was adopted soon after birth and although she has since been provided with a fortunate upbringing, this is something which still hurts, or at least has done quite badly in the past. There were other unfortunate happenings in her childhood but out of respect I won't share those here. Besides, the fact she was adopted, I think, is enough to make the point. I have also shared with her some of my struggles growing up and the issues I have faced with incontinence and nappies as a result. I have mentioned nothing about AB/DL so far.
Anyway I think thats enough background on the situation for now. So while she is on holiday with family for Xmas, we have been texting regularly and a couple of days ago, she mentioned that she wasn't feeling too well. She said she had a sore throat and that maybe she might need some baby food when she gets home. So I jokingly suggested a bedtime story too, to which her immediate response was "In that case, I seriously I hope I still have a sore throat when I get home!" So, I followed up with the offer of feeding her from a baby bottle, looking after her and generally babying her. Again, she instantly replied that she would "love that" and that it sounded "amazing." I told her that it was not uncommon to feel this way and in fact, one of my exes used to get me to baby her and that she loved it too (ex in question was AB but I haven't told her.... yet). I also said that I could do more than just feed her. She asked what else I could do, so I offered a dummy, to which she replied "we'll see about the dummy " ....not entirely sure what to make of that response right now
Anyway, since then we have been talking a lot about it, she said that she misses being a baby and I've suggested that being looked after might be therapeutical to her. I get the feeling that she is quite vulnerable and could really benefit from feeling some extra safety and security in her life and she does seem very keen to give it a try. She's even told me her favourite colours, preferences in baby food, favourite childhood cartoon characters. In addition to this, she's been talking and acting little and now she is even calling me Daddy
She has been very forthcoming in just a few days about this side of herself so I'm not gonna push or force anything. I was happy enough in our vanilla relationship in the first place, so all of her 'little' tendencies she has shared so far, I am considering to be a nice bonus to our relationship. Having been in an ABDL relationship previously, I fully realise the trust issues of such a taboo fetish and the implications of any abuse of this trust. It's a very big risk, but with an even bigger payoff. Who Dares Wins and all that, right?
So heres where I'm at right now I'm thinking that she's probably never tried this before but that she could be a closet LG, AB, DL, or any combination of those - although to what degree, I'm not sure. She might just like to be babied and looked after. The thought of a sucking a dummy or even wearing a nappy might not be her thing at all, or if she really is new to all of this, she may have never even considered such activity. She may be discovering it in herself for the first time. I know there is a huge variety of different ABDL types out there, all with their own complex combinations of tastes and kinks which I totally understand. Either way, I'm gonna be taking this at her pace, which at the moment is pretty fast so I may even slow it down a notch or two - I'm in no rush to ruin a perfectly good relationship. Besides, we are so in love that even if she isn't into it, then when the time is right, I'd be able to fully 'come out' and be honest with her and I'm certain that it would not damage our relationship.
So, there you have it. Thats whats developed in our relationship, over text (mostly), since Saturday night.
If anybody has read this far and not fell asleep, then I thank you very, very much! I would love to hear of any similar experiences or thoughts anybody cares to share on this situation, and I welcome them!
Hopefully the outcome here will be that I can share a true and encouraging story which backs up the general consensus of you're more likely to meet an ABDL partner IRL than you are on an ABDL website.
I promise to keep you updated!
Merry Xmas everyone!