Disclaimer: I am in no way on this post saying that everyone should do as I have done. This is for those who like me, just wanted to get away from the abdl lifestyle because it was unhealthy for them. For others it may be perfectly healthy.
Awhile ago I had asked if one could rid themselves of their "abdl" desires and the answer was a resounding no.
I do remember one individual stated that if some have gotten over it, they probably wouldn't go to an abdl site and tell people because they moved on.
Well, I am here to be that person to return and say that these desires can be eradicated. For good. I have zero desire to ever participate in this lifestyle in any form now. Zero. No more craving diapers, etc.
How? I simply stopped thinking I was an abdl that was trying not to be one anymore and realized I was not one to begin with. Now granted, I had done little in participating in the lifestyle, so one who has actually lived out this way for years, may not find it that simple.
But for those who are young like me and find this to be unhealthy in your life, this can be removed. You control your life, not anything else that exists in this world.
Honestly, if I had never accidentally discovered abdl, I probably would of outgrown my desires because they weren't necessarily abdl. All it was for me was that I had a traumatic early childhood that caused me to grow up super fast, and dealing with that early trauma has helped me be ok with growing up and not ever really being an innocent child.
I was thinking of starting a blog that can help those like me who want to not be an abdl anymore. I would love to hear your thoughts.