I wasn't sure how to title this. Basicly I'm wondering/looking for "dating advice" I guess is how it would be described. I know their are meet and greets and get togethers. The thing is I have been away from the community for a while and I don't even know if LA, CA get togethers happen.
My biggest issue is being myself around people. When I meet new people I am really shy and reserved. I try not to say anything unless I have too. Which at that point if I do get to know people I get so scared of making them uncomfortable that I either try to pleas them or if I invite them out I give them a way out. Like I will ask
"Would like to go for coffee sometime unless you have plans then I totally understand?"
100% of the time they usually take the way out I give them.
I don't know how to be assertive I guess.
Idk just looking help I guess.