I am Josh. A little bit about me. I am on disability right now, so I am home a lot. I am not going to school. So to fill up my time I like to help out at the church and talk to friends. Binkygirl is a very good friend of mine and she is the one that finally convinced me to post on here.
What Brings me here is pretty obvious. I am a DL, I do have some AB tenancies but have not really had the chance to explore it. My AB side is non-sexual and just want the type of love and affection that I have never gotten.
I have a Daddy side so it would be nice to explore both side to see what I prefer.
As Far as other interests, I am a bit of gamer, I mostly game because I am home a lot and there is not much else to do. I like the outdoors and I do enjoy sports but my blindness and other disabilities have hindered me from do a lot of what I used to love. Because Of that I have turned to being supportive to my friends. I am a great listener and like to talk to my friends on the phone when I can. I really like putting together models, and I love to do puzzles. The complicated ones are really cool to do. I enjoy watching many different genres of movies.
Well first off I am looking to meet like-minded friends. I have found as I got older that I get along better with women. I just find it easier to talk to them. In my experience my guy friends always seem to be in a competition with each other. Plus I have learned in life that in order to be a better man, you need the advice of women to help better yourself. Women are better at pointing out a flaw that needs to be worked on in a kind yet constructive manner. So I like to meet people that will help me be a better person I am always striving to be the best I can be. Also the reason I get along with women more is because I am bi-polar and need to be able to talk about and share my emotions, and women are just better about talking about emotions. I am not saying all this to try and "find a date" I am just saying this is who I get along the best with.
I have found that I do well being a support to people. I have several friends in the IC community. I have had a few friends who have said that the only reason I am supportive to the IC community because I am "into diapers." That is not the case. I want to help people so I get to know them and learn what I can do to make themselves feel better. I want to be able to encourage people and not mock or bring them down when they struggle. I have had to many people hold my disabilities against me and make me feel like a burden and I do not want to do that to others.
Thanks for taking the time to read this.