Okay so i need help. This is embarrassing even for me and im writing this while everyone sleeps so I'll just get straight to the point.all my life I've never said no to my god brother. I've protected him from bullies ( a few teachers to(using methods Im not paticularly proud of ) , teaching him just about everything he knows, helping him with just about every problem he's ever had, only ever having a few fights on hand.
were only ever rarely apart. I've even gone with him to sleepovers.SEEING the problem yet essentially im the overprotective Big brother (official nickname in school) or brother with a little brother complex. but it dosen't just stop here. I have been overprotective of everyone I find the need to care about even a few people i hated in highschool ( hence the nick name big brother) but the main problem is how can i stop my habit from showing up when I don't need them to