I'm not new, but hadn't been on in a long time. I adopted a child who is now 19 years old. He has a lot of medical complications. Amongst them is incontinence, both bladder and bowel. He takes about 2000ml of fluid overnight through a feeding tube, so he pees a LOT overnight. I'm mostly here to research new highly absorbent diapers to see if I can find a solution so that he doesn't end up in a puddle of urine in the mornings. I've tried a bunch of diapers, and doublers, and nothing seems to work. Part of the problem is his size... approx. 28" waist, 31"-32" hips, relatively small legs, and relatively short waist to crotch length. I'm open to suggestions.