I was responding to a post someone else made and it got me thinking about the types of trust involved in different kinds of relationships so I thought I might ask you guys.
Do you think it would take more or less trust in someone to be their little versus their sexual partner?
Say that the two relationships were not intertwined, which would you say would involve the most trust for you?
For me personally I would sooner have sex with a total stranger than be a little to someone I don't trust implicitly. (not that I do that haha)
It seems to me like there would be too many risks involved. Like what if your daddy or mommy was a closet pedophile? Not saying it happens but it COULD I suppose. And in that little vs big relationship you are having to trust that person to feed you, maybe bathe you, change you even and all those things take a high level of trust.
Not to mention trusting that person with a secret.
That's just me, my little side is almost more personal and private to me than my (nearly nonexistent) sexual side so sharing that with someone is a scary idea for me.
What about you?