I have been dealing with slowly growing issues with having to very suddenly go to the bathroom and dealing with leaks and accidents. I casually brought it up with the doctors I see, but they just do urine and blood tests and find nothing wrong.
I want to push the issue more with them or talk with someone about it, but then I feel guilty. It feels "wrong" for me to be a DL, yet also have a need for them (even though I know I shouldn't). I'm also worried about bringing it up with my girlfriend, since she knows my DL and lets me wear around her, but really doesn't like me doing anything in them.
It's very comforting for me when I'm padded, since I worry about fluid intake and having access to a bathroom. I don't know what to do about my situation.