I've been part of the ABDL community for about a year or so now, & one thing keeps coming up & I truly baffles me how it's a big deal to people.
I've been to countless forms of ABDL websites, social media outlets, & I always see people either posting, or asking other ABDLs about coming out to friends, family etc, so that they could wear whenever they wanted to without threat of being embarrassed.
The same could be said for folks who want ABDL awareness & acceptance in the world, similar to homosexuality awareness.
I honestly love this community, & I think there's a lot of awesome people in it. But could somebody please elaborate to me, how telling your next door neighbor that you either fantasize about diapers, or being an adult baby really accomplishes anything?
Same can be said for those hopefuls who want worldwide acceptance for this lifestyle/fetish, how does that change anything? There's no law saying you can't wear diapers in public, granted under some sort of pants/shorts.
I'm not trying to cast judgment here, I'm just simply wondering; why is worldwide acceptance, for something that's none in typical private such a big deal in the community, when in reality it really changes nothing.
Obviously the only exception to this, would be coming out to your significant other. That part of the coming out makes complete sense.