Hello ADISC! I want to start off by saying that not very long ago I had never heard of the AB/DL community, so I'm here mostly to learn. Recently I met someone and we became very close very fast, just as I was admitting to myself I was falling in love he told me he had something he needed to talk to me about. He was interested in a very particular fetish and that it was important to him that he told me about it early on in our relationship. We're in our 20's, and I'm not a stranger to the internet, so even though I could tell he was very anxious about telling me I pushed him confide in me. As informed as felt I was, I had never heard of the adult baby community, and I was pretty shocked.
At first I was mostly just digging for information everywhere about what this thing is, but things have changed. The thing is, I'm in love. This guy is wonderful, and I could tell it took a lot for him to talk to me about this, the amount of trust he put in me makes me determined to deserve his trust. The thing is, this is new for both of us, though he says he's been a long time lurker on this forum and he's always been interested in the AB/DL lifestyle, but he's never actually indulged in his fantasies. I'm a natural caregiver, it's my profession as a nurse and my nature, as odd as this seemed at first I feel like I can really become involved in this lifestyle with my boyfriend by my side. We've recently hit the point where we're role playing and I put his first real diaper on him, and things are moving quickly, it's exciting and new for both of us.
The reason I'm here, the point of this wall of text, is that I want to learn how to be a good mommy, but we have some obstacles to work through. I have a lot to learn, and I know communication is important, but I feel like there's a million other things going on, and I want to know how to ask the right questions (especially because my boyfriend can be shy).
Thanks for reading!