I my self have been wearing diapers for the last couple of years due to a some what incontinent bowel. I have a weak bowel mussel according to the doctor and there is not much to do about it. I was told to try to regulate it by taking a powder fiber supplement and do that. The doctor told me that I can 1) be near facilities, 2) take an anti-diarrhea pill, or 3) wear protection. Since I do not want to sit at home and do not want to take pills to bid me up, I have gone the protection.
At first I had a minor problem that only happened once in a while. I could use incontinent pants and pads. Then as I got older it became more of a problem. I get the urge but only have 90 or so seconds to find a facility before it just comes out in what I am wearing. Since adult pull ups came out, I use them at home and for short trips. I wear full fitted diapers when out for a while, traveling or going out for dinner. A large meal sometimes starts the process. My weak mussel cannot hold it in. So I fill the seat of my diapers.
I have gotten used to the problem and the diapers. They are now comfortable and I get a sense of security with them. I sometimes get a sense of shame but know I cannot help it. Now I have embraced the diapers and would not go out without one on. I still get somewhat ashamed to what I do in my diapers.