Hi people, Thanks for having me!
(no really, some of you can have me!)
I'm past not being me and over the last year have been integrating various aspects of my life into one (hopefully) functional existence.
I've been close to meeting a few other d/ls and talking to my wife about it.
However I always have the idea I will be raped/kidnapped/uncomfortable or something else. Has anyone here made ab type friends/fetish friends as an adult and how did you know it was safe?
I would love some of the more veteran people to tell me how you get invited to a Munch or similar or how you yourself have gone about meeting people, filtering out wierdo's/incompatibles?
wow i sound like a judgemental arsehole. I'm not, just not very eloquent at 5.20am For the record, i consider myself a wierdo