So, my partner found out that I'm a DL the other day -- shamefully, I didn't have the guts to tell her, but had to get a train and left my computer on...with an 'ab/dl picture' (or ten) open, shall we say. Ooops.
Fortunately, she's been exceptionally understanding, and I actually feel a huge sense of relief that she knows. After saying words like "why on earth" and laughing quite a lot at my reaction (which mostly involved trying to run away and hide), she did have a few questions -- namely things like 'don't you get nappy rash', and 'how long have you liked that sort of thing'.
One in particular I wasn't able to answer very well: she said that she wouldn't like to try wearing in case she got thrush. I don't think this is a particular concern, largely because urine is sterile, and slightly acidic -- both of which are a Good Thing in terms of not disturbing the fauna down there. What are your experiences? How can I reassure her? I'd ideally like to get her to join at some point too, but I guess that's a way off yet .