I'm not sure if this is the right forum for this.
But I was wondering if anyone knows (if it is the same for most people): whether there is a connection between people who are ABDLs and asexual?
To explain that further (I understand my question doesn't make much sense). I've known I'm an ABDL for some time. It started when I was 6, continued until I was 10 or so, and came back around 11 quite badly (and continued now until 22).
I also think I'm asexual, and I notice a lot of ABDLs are asexual too (I realise a lot, if not most aren't too).
For me, being an ABDL isn't a 'big' sexual thing, but it is more sexual to me that sex itself. Which is partly strange since I was interested in being an ABDL before reaching puberty (i.e. no/limited sexual feelings, and none towards ABDL at that point- just the feeling towards liking it).
So my question is, do you think being an ABDL has led me to be asexual, or perhaps vice versa? Any thoughts?
Hopefully you see my thought pattern, if not I can clarify.