Hey all. I have been a diaper lover since I was a young child but never delved much into the AB side of things. Now a girl my age from my area has contacted me via fetlife (I feel super lucky). She is looking for a daddy dom. She is a little and also a DL. I have messaged her a few times, talking not just about our ABDL sides, but other like interests too, many which we share in common.
In her last message she sent me her kik name. I understand that a lot of men on the internet, especially dating sites, are creepers. Women get flooded with "I'm so horny. Wanna be my baby girl? You can touch my sweaty throbbing man cock all day." type messages. I don't want to be like this and don't feel the need to be.
At the same time, I don't want to seem like I'm avoiding the ABDL topic and being a prude. So far we discussed her interests of her little side a bit and I played out two ABDL scenarios to her, one a more cuddly one, one more on the punishment side. She said she liked both.
So, tomorrow I am going to kik her and it will be my first real time conversation with her. How should I approach the ABDL side without being creepy? I don't want my intro kik to be boring and all, "so, how is your day going?" type small talk and turn her off from me. I also don't want to come on too strong. Advice? Take into account I'm new to the whole Daddy role.