I was stunned when my brother yelled at me that I should be more adult. Here I am diapered 24/7. I have other people change me every few hours. I'm hand fed every meal. I get full help bathing and dressing. I rarely walk and use a wheelchair or stroller everywhere and my brother wants me to be more adult? When I asked him how and why he just got quiet. It bothered me to see him so mad, and I am confused by the whole thing. I was alone with him, none of my aides were in the room at that time.