A couple of years back I had an operation that saved my life, but left me with fecal incontinence. I have recently started traveling farther from my house and just leaving the house more in general. I have changed wet diapers in public, but would like to know if I am handling the messy ones correctly. Currently if an accident happens where I am still close to home I just go home and clean up, but what if I go further away? Do I still just try and go home or is there a way to address the issue in a public bathroom that leaves me with a shred of dignity?