well I now have my house to myself since my wife left. I started to make the spare room into a nursery/play room a while back and have kept a locking doorknob on the door but my mother wants to help me by cleaning the house up and come back weekly to continue keeping it clean (she has a house cleaning business and wants to do something nice for me) with her and her two other workers. I have never told her about this other then telling her I was making the spare room into a place for me to go to relax, and I know if she sees its locked she would ask why and what's in there.
I don't know if I should tell her or not? I would feel better if I told her just incase I accidently leave something out in my room or something, I don't plan on ever letting her see the room but I feel like it would be easier to explain now then if she finds something I left out and asks me about it.
I don't know how to explain something like this to her, im afraid she will look at me differently.