I have been married to my wife for ten years and have been a diaper lover for about 25 years. I have wanted to tell her for so long, but I'm very nervous to do it. I haven't been able to find the courage to do it. I'm afraid she might freak out and take the kids and leave. She is very vanilla soni can't imagine her taking the news well. I am just tired of hiding it and wearing in secret. I'm not saying I want her to wear with me or change me ( although that would be amazing), but I would love her to know abouts wearing and be okay with it. Any advice?