Hello. I'll start by saying I am an incontinent turned DL. Saying that I am an ABDL would be a little inaccurate, however, I do enjoy the smell of baby powder and will wear a onesie on occasion, if my diaper needs some "lift".
I love the padding between my legs (thick is good) however, what I enjoy the most is a diaper change, powder and rubdown. I especially like the part when the diaper is brought up between my legs (the wider the better) and I pay very close attention to how I position and tape my diaper on.
When my mommy offers to change me, it's at this point where I do melt in bed enjoying the feelings of my wife's hands and comfort of my diaper. Especially when she is hovering over me, while putting it on, in a conservative, Mommy-like night gown.