I need help, advice, just general opinions and ideas on what I can do in my current situation. I will try to explain it as simply and quickly as I can because I want help asap.
Ok. Where to begin. Earlier this year I was dumped by my girlfriend of six years. She broke my heart. I never thought I'd feel that way about someone again. She had spent the last 2 years in nappies 24/7, I also never thought I would find someone to participate in abdl play again. Of course being 24/7 for so long meant her bladder had weakened and she began having accidents first at night in her sleep and then gradually during the day.
When she left me, broken and alone, I begged her not to tell anybody about this side of me and she agreed she wouldn't saying it would be embarrassing for her to admit that she went along with this stuff. She said the accidents had stopped.
She wanted to stay friends but I've never been keen on that idea and the only way I found the self worth to pull myself out of my post-dump slump was to realize how hurtful it was for her to give up on our relationship and to give up on me after six years rather than trying to work through our issues together.
Flash forward seven months and I've moved on, stopped thinking about her and started to see the good in life (and people) again. I've even met a nice young lady and started to spend some enjoyable time with her.
My ex texted me out of nowhere today and the message read:
"I know you probably don't want to hear from me.. but I can't tell anyone else. After 6 months of not wetting the bed, I did this morning.. and I don't know how I feel about it"
What does she mean? What should I do? So far I have not replied and I'm not sure I want to show her any kindness since she hurt me so badly. On the other hand I feel obliged to meet with her and sound her out.