Hi there DL's,
I need some advice. I personally am not a DL. I dont know how to say this without coming across as rude so please do not get offended at any stage throughout my post! I just am not sure how to word things. I am your average young woman, with no desire for DL or AB. I have joined this site as I need some advice and who better to get it from than people such as yourselves.
I am writing this and reaching out to your community as I am having a dilemma. I have just come across the realisation that my current boyfriend is either a DL or AB or both. I came across this unintentionally so of course he doesnt know that I am aware of his DL/AB tastes.
I found that he has/is chatting or going on ABDL webcams. He has been watching porn that is specifically ABDL and has joined 'diaperbook'.
I have nothing against ABDL. I accept people for who they are; Everybody suffers, and everyone just wants acceptance and love, it is a universal need that we all desire. If you are good to me, I will be good to you. Is my philosophy. I have no need for prejudices and judgement. Because; what constitutes normal? There is no definition. I was raised to love everyone, and that i do. (Of course there is the usual whole no tolerance for rapists, pedophiles etc) but you get my drift.
My questions are these;
1. How do I go about approaching my boyfriend with this subject to get him to open up to me about it delicately? How can I tell if he is an AB OR DL or both? secondly,
2. what is diaperbook? is it a sexual site or just to reach out to other people who have the same likes? same goes for ABDL webcams? are they of a sexual nature or friendly?
3. He never initiates sex with me. EVER. If I never initiated, we would never do it. So it leads me to believe that his ABDL is more satisfying than me?
The reason I ask is because if diaperbook and ABDL webcams are sexual and not just a support type site, then that in my mind is cheating. It may not be physical, but its still actively going out of your way to become sexual with another person. For me, webcaming goes beyond your usual porn. It gives a somewhat more personal feel to it. And the fact that he wont be sexual with me, yet goes on these websites and webcams to do god knows what, is hurtful. But I dont know, you guys may shed some light on it.