Just wondering if I can get some opinions on this. First, a backstory. I've never been fortunate enough to meet a woman for diaper play (been flaked on several times), but it may be a possibility with a local woman (100% positive she's genuine, talked on phone, all that). We were at the point of it being a definite thing a few weeks ago, then she flaked out and said she just wanted the fantasy. She replied again this week, just saying that she will get back to me when she's less busy, but I'm still not that hopeful. Still, if she replies that she wants to do it, I need to be ready to order diapers soon before she changes her mind again(!). I rarely wear diapers anymore myself, and thus would be ordering a sample pack for her, probably from Duraline, as well as a couple of other brands from another site. I was all set to order them the morning she originally flaked.
My problem is that I'm not sure what size would be best for her -- medium or large. She has never worn the baby-style adult diapers before, only pull-ups from Depend and other companies. She is not fat or a BBW, but she is thick and tall -- about 5'10". She definitely has some hips on her in her photos. I went ahead and asked what her waist size is, but she said she's not sure.
Having not worn diapers for a while, I fished out one I had around and looked at it recently on myself. I have about a 30-31" waist, and a medium Attends' flaps didn't seem like they would fully fit around someone who was larger. I don't want to have a situation where I'm trying to diaper her and the tapes just ending up on the flaps, and it not being a nice encompassing fit for her. I guess my question is whether a large would be too large. I know in addition to having longer side flaps, the pad is wider and longer front to back. Considering that she is tall, it's likely that she'll have a longer abdomen, so I'm wondering if that would be okay. Do you all think that if I got the large, it wouldn't be too large on a girl who has a thicker but not fat hip/waist area?