Before anybody goes apeshit, hear me out. I'm not a pedophile, and I think it's horrible. However, just like we have a strange attraction to diapers and/or acting like a baby they have a strange attraction to younger children. They didn't choose to be a pedophile anymore than I chose to have a diaper fetish.
I'M NOT TALKING ABOUT THE PEDOPHILES WHO ACT ON THEIR FEELINGS
If they act on their feelings and have sexual interaction with a child that is obviously not ok at all. I'm just talking about how they have these feelings from birth and have to suppress them. We have a forum board like this to talk about our fetish and people tell their spouses without too much worry. If they have a forum board it would probably get taken down and the IP addresses of the users would be monitored. Again, not trying to connect AB/DL to pedophile, just something I've thought about