I found this site looking for some information - not for myself so much as for my boyfriend. I'm not sure if he's an AB or anything, but I know he has some regressive tendencies, and I want to make sure to be supportive if he regresses more, so I'd really like it if anyone could help me out here.
I don't know if I feel comfortable detailing our life here yet, but basically, I'd love to know people's favorite little things, and if there's anything they'd have responded to early on before 'coming out'. Like, if there's something I could do that's innocent and not highly specific, that he might respond to if he does have AB tendencies.
I'd also love to know what some common 'carer' things are, and if anyone has advice on how to keep the adult relationship and the carer/little one relationship separate enough that they can be satisfying.
I know that most of this has to come from within my boyfriend and myself, but I'm not sure how to start that conversation, and I really want to know more about the lifestyle and what general themes are before we start down that road.
I don't think there's DL in our future, but hey, any comments help. Also, I'm definitely definitely on the 'carer' side more than the little one side, I've been a mother figure for friends in my past and it comes naturally and easily to me.
Anyway...long story short, hello there~ I'm looking forward to talking to people here, really really.