It is nice to talk to people here, or write anyway. I'm not at the level yet where I can use messaging. I don't use IM much anyway except for a friend who knows nothing about this and I'll never tell her. We have a platonic relationship, have never met and never plan on it though we could have easily done so in the year that has passed.
I've looked at some sites and they just weren't for me. Diapers and the like are just a part of me. I'm wearing one now. Soon though, I'll be taking it off, putting on my normal underwear, clothes, and going out to do things, meet with family and so forth. When I come home I'll be putting one on again and maybe watch TV for a while before I have to go to bed and start my work day again tomorrow.
This site has allowed me to see that there are a lot of well adjusted people from all walks of life in various phases of AB, DL, IC, Fur and so-on. I've learned a couple of things that are non-diaper related that I wouldn't have elsewhere.
I think I can make new friends and if something ever comes up about the ABDL as I explore this side of me now, I can talk about it without someone telling me I need counseling or a devil beaten out of me with a large stick. Whomever you are, you will understand my needs and desires.