Hello, I am the wife of a DL and I have joined this sight because I needed some advice. I fully accept and participate in the DL stuff with my husband and I guess I am now one too. I hope this is acceptable to you all. I have found the comments on my other postings to be very helpful to my marriage and understanding and feel that I am finding friends. Glad this sight exists so that those in the ABDL world can share and know they are accepted.