I found this article on drspock.com and i am thinking about putting it in the wiki.
SUBJECT: Diaper Crazy
For anyone who is not aware (and trust me, most of you are not aware), Infantalism is a fast growing trend among teens and preteens. http://geocities.com/mitcher14/wkld.html is one resource (there are literally thousands on the internet) dealing with this subject, here are some notable excerpts:
"You may have a 6 year old begging to wear a diaper again. Your 10 year old seems interested in them. You may have found diapers in your 14 year old's closet. Your 16 year old is looking at pictures of boys in diapers. You have no idea what is going on.
You ask yourself what is wrong with him? Did I do anything to cause this? Is this harmful? Is this just a phase? Is this sexual? Is he gay? Will he become a pedophile? What will my spouse think? What is my son thinking? Do we get tough on him? Do we ignore it? Do we get professional help? Do we buy him diapers if it makes him happy? Who do I turn to for help? Why him? Why me? Why? These are common questions."
"What is wrong with him that causes these desires? It is called "Infantilism." That is broken into two groups. "Teen Babies" and "Diaper Lovers". A teen baby seeks the real babying experience. Along with diapers they love pacifiers, bottles, cribs, baby clothes and baby food. Being changed and bathed. It can be any combination. They like to feel helpless and for them diapers mean "security." A diaper lover is more sexual. While most would really enjoy babying it is the feel, look, smell and sound of a diaper that they crave. Most boys are diaper lovers. It is very rare for a girl to be a diaper lover. They are almost always "babies". Most people who have infantilism live otherwise normal lives. Most have steady employment and raise families of their own. You would not notice anything different about them at all. Not a lot of accurate information exists here because up until now professionals only saw the most debilitating cases of total regression."
"Is this behavior harmful and must he let go these desires at all costs? No No No No. That is a normal knee jerk response by many parents in the past and today as well. You need to approach this in a rational manner. What he is doing is not a crime. If it was you would already know all the answers. Think about common problems encountered by parents of teens. Drugs- No teen ever died from pinning or taping on too many diapers. Violence/Gangs/Guns Diapers symbolize love and caring. Those are good qualities. Drinking- No teen ever wrecked a car because their diaper was too wet. This behavior should be kept at home but if it isn't I guarantee he will be the safest of drivers for obvious reasons. Gambling-Diapers aren't free but compared to what can happen here they are cheap. Smoking- A rash is easier to cure than lung damage. Teen Pregnancy- No one ever got Pampers pregnant and many have tried. In reality it is nothing more than wearing an earring, tattoo or whatever else is hot. Diapers alone are completely harmless."
"Is this how pedophiles start? Absolutely not. That was my worst fear. I know it has crossed your mind. That desire comes from wanting to dominate another sexually. From a sexual view "fetishes" and "domination" are almost completely opposite while most people maintain a balance somewhere in between. Where this can be easily confused is only small children wear diapers in public. While almost all diaper lovers enjoy seeing a kid in a diaper they would not get any sexual gratification by actually touching that child. They are in love with the image. You hear about molestation often, but you never hear "diaper" in the same sentence. Anything can happen, but the truth is a child is in more danger of being harmed at school or church than in a room all alone with a person with a fetish of any kind."
The above exceprts were taken from the site http://geocities.com/mitcher14/wkld.html
I found it to be very helpful and interesting.