Hi everyone, I have severe urinary IC and occasional fecal IC. I've been attending high school at a special school for those with mild physical disabilities (that don't require a caregiver) or depression/anxiety. Sometimes I am the only person in the classroom, and there's never more than five or so students. Those with physical disabilities tend to stay in my classroom and those with depression/anxiety tend to stay in the other. This isn't enforced by the teachers or anything, it just happened (and I definitely can't complain, the other class is always much louder). Due to the low number of students and the ability to come and go as I please, no one has ever said anything about my IC (if anyone even knows about it) and it has never been a problem. However, for my senior year I'll be attending a normal high school as my current school is lacking in extracurricular and specialty courses. I'll also be going to school with my boyfriend for the first time. He knows I wear but does not know about my IC. So far I have only told two friends (luckily they're both wonderful and completely understanding).
So I have a few things I need advice on. What (disposable) diaper should I wear to school? I have some PUL pants that I almost always wear (over disposables, I don't do cloth), should I wear those? Should I tell my boyfriend about my IC? Should I tell the school administration and my teachers? How would I go about doing that? When and where should I change? Classes are 80 minutes long and there are four classes per day. Lunch is between periods 2 and 3, and there's also some sort of recess thing between periods 1 and 2. Sorry for asking so many questions but I'm really scared and don't know what to do.