In a couple weeks, my wife and I are taking a trip up north (MN) with another couple for 4 days at a lake resort cabin. The other couple is leaving a day early so we'll be alone for one night. My wife's sex drive is at zero (thanks to the stress of 3 young boys) so I'm 99% sure she's expecting me to come onto her that night and I'm expecting her to get grumpy and say no.
She's not into the diaper thing but doesn't get angry when I wear provided I keep quiet at night. I wear maybe 2-3 times a month for a few hours in bed.
Here's what I'm thinking. Knowing I will make her grumpy by asking for sex I'm thinking of packing a diaper for that night. I'm trying to be careful to say 'I won't ask for sex if you let me wear a diaper' cause that puts her in a bad position and mood.
I'm also thinking of secretly changing into a diaper before we go fishing in the evening and just let things happen. If she finds out I just go with the flow.
What do you guys think? I want to have some type of excitement. I think I'll enjoy the diaper more vs a few minutes of no excitement sex. Do I tell her my plan? Do I ask her? Do I keep it a secret? Any normal ideas I can make this fun or easier on her?