So I just got up enough bravery to diaper myself for the first time. I've not worn a diaper since I was a baby, though I DO know how to put one on.
I bought a large sample pack of the Bambino Bellissimo diapers, figuring they would fit me in the waist, since that's the measurement they use. My problem is THIS:
I am a VERY wide-hipped woman. Like 'honey, my hips are shelves in a brick house' wide-hipped. So the diapers don't really fit my hips too well. Hello Kitty duct tape solved THAT problem when the tabs wouldn't stay, but I had to fold the sides in a lot so that the diaper fit my waist properly without leaving a gap big enough to put a kangaroo joey inside.
Did I do something wrong? I put the diaper on myself just like I remember doing for my little sister when she was a baby, and my grandma when she was bedridden and dying.
Do I need to move up to the X-large size (When Bambino ever gets the sample packs of them in stock) and just fold the waist in so it'll fit my hips?
I like how this diaper feels on me, I just don't really like having to use my pretty pink Hello Kitty duct tape to make it stay on me properly thanks to my gigantic hips and much smaller waist. What can I do to make it better?
Also, I can't really get anyone to help me. I live in a place where stuff like this is only for old people and babies, not a DL, and I DON'T want my parents to find out. I'm not comfortable with it, so I can't go up to someone and ask 'hey, do I have this diaper on right?' no matter how much it would help.