OK so I need advice. My daddy and I both have a little side. Mine is more demanding than his. Well lately we have been having issues with our little side letting the other one have little time. or me I am having a hard time getting into the mommy mind set. And I think my meds for seizures have something to do with it. But I still find that I can not into the mommy mind set for him. then I get mad at myself cause I do not want to be selfish and just be the only one who is the little when they need it. How do we find the happy middle. He says if he has to then he will just shut down that side of him. I do not want to have to have him do that. But I am not sure what to do.
And then there are the times when he does decide to be daddy, he tells me no more being big for the day and snuggles me and calms me down. Then five minutes later or after I take a nap he is done. Last time it happened he told me NO potty at all for the day and that I was to be in little mode , Which I do not mind at all. But then he puts me down for a nap and goes and does his thing while I sleep. When I wake up daddy mode has been turned off. HE gets upset that I wake up with a messy diaper or something like that and makes me change myself or use the potty. My little side can not handle the inconsistency. What do I do?