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    Exclamation The hate we get

    Every time i see someone in ab/dl community get attack i get the feeling that i can't do anything. I just hate that people can't stop what they are doing and see that our community is doing more good than what they see. We as a community have taken plenty of child pornographic sites down and yet they don't see that. It just makes me mad to live in a world that nobody get to know each other. I hate feeling helpless when it come getting attack by our peers.

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    What I do is stand up for the person or with the person. Normally once one person stands up to the bully others will follow. I do it on Instagram all the time. It makes me feel good to help someone out.

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    Hate is a passing thing. People find something different and they hate it because it makes them afraid. But people, as a whole, also like to learn, to explore their world and learn new things. Eventually, some of them will figure out that the thing they're afraid of isn't something scary at all. It can take a long time. And maybe some people are stubborn, they get older, they learn certain values and they won't open their minds to new things anymore. But they'll have kids, and those kids will have kids, so eventually they'll start thinking differently too.

    So, when you see someone getting attacked or hate levied on them, don't worry so much. Help them out if you can, help teach people that there's nothing scary or bad that we're doing. Eventually they'll figure it out, and even time we speak well for ourselves and help the world understand a bit more, we get closer to that point.

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    What do you mean by "attacked"? Are we being assaulted and beaten? I've seen a lot of people making fun of ABDLs or making false associations but I've yet to hear of an act of violence directed at any of us.

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    Quote Originally Posted by MattiKins View Post
    What do you mean by "attacked"? Are we being assaulted and beaten? I've seen a lot of people making fun of ABDLs or making false associations but I've yet to hear of an act of violence directed at any of us.
    Since I haven't seen any outrageous news stories of a guy in a diaper left bleeding on the street, I'm going to assume it's words over the Internet. Still sucks though.

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    Yeah, it sucks, but there are always going to be people who are ignorant, hateful, and mean. We don't have to empower those people by giving them the satisfaction of our discontent.

    Or, in layman's terms, they can get bent.

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    I always thought it was the attitude of conformity..but maybe fears part of that too.

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    Yup. I can't stop someone from hating me especially if I am not doing anything to trigger it. My wearing diapers doesn't affect anyone else in the least, and I am not waving my padded butt in your face. The only thing I can do is continue to be awesome and maybe one day the hater will realize how silly they are.

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    Default The hate we get

    Truthfully, I can't be bothered to give a rat's ass as to what someone so brain dead as a perpetual hater might think about me.

    People who spend their days hating all sorts of things (like ABDL) are doing themselves a disservice by living a bitter, painful life. In a way, I pity them.

    Trying to convince such people to think otherwise is often beating a dead horse, so I prefer to go about my life and let them wallow in their miserable world of hate while I pass by.

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