So this topic has been brought up before but I feel like the answers were all miss mashed among other stuff and I want some clear answers which I'm hoping y'all have some experience with.
So I told my girlfriend, now fiancÚ about my diaper fetish and she seemed to accept it for a while until recently. About a month ago we moved in together and I guess now that she is seeing me in diapers more often, I can tell she is not as accepting about it as she once was. Obviously this will take time and of course I want her to feel comfortable with it but we got to talking last night and this is what she expressed to me..
My fiancÚ feels that when I wear diapers its because she is not "enough"for me and I need the diapers to compensate for it. Now my issue with this is that yes diapers are a sexual part of my life but in no way are they more important then she is.
How can I explain to her that they are just a comfort item and that while I like to wear them as often as I can, they are no replacement for her. Ive tried to give them up but as you all know that is almost impossible. I am willing to limit my diaper wearing as much as I can, but is there any way I can explain this fetish to her without hurting her feelings and making her feel less important?