While it's been done a million times and covered brilliantly by Beta http://www.adisc.org/forum/adult-bab...l-partner.html
on how to go about it, that's not my problem. I should tell her, I want to, I know how but there's a twist. I have almost no desire at all to involve her in my diapers, diaper time, etc. She literally completes me, I feel whole with her. I don't need them when she's around. The moment she's not around (away for a few days for what ever reason) the urges resurface immediately. And when shes back I feel no need for silly diapers. We've lived together for some time and are moving across the country soon, it's been 2 years, it's getting quite serious, I need to tell her even though I don't desire diapers currently... It's a strange feeling. It's like why tell her about something I don't feel when she's around?