Hello again Adisc. I'm having a problem I would love some advice, or help with. Recently I've entered into a relationship with a guy who knew all of my kinks from the start. He himself doesn't have an interest in diapers, but he's a very caring person who likes to look after others. Several days ago we were chatting on Skype, he dropped a few hints that he'd like to try playing caretaker to me through role-play.
I was very excited by this news because I hadn't made any advances toward him in this area so for him to decided to do it himself really touched me. The next two nights we talk about my interest in diapers, where I thought it had come from, and what exactly I liked. We then decided to set aside all evening to role-play this evening. However things didn't go according to plan.
When we got to the part where he would start treating me differently he froze up, and told me he wasn't comfortable continuing. Of course I stopped, and we talked. It seems when the thought occurred to him he imagined me as an actual kid, and felt like he was being a pedophile. This really hurt to hear because I was so looking forward to being able to connect over this and actually enjoy my desires with him. I was disappointed. Not with him, but with just a general overwhelming feeling.
We talked for a while, and it seems he still wants to try but he wants to go very slowly about it. My question is can anyone give advice for this situation? What small things can I do to help him feel more comfortable, and possibly overcome this feeling that it's pedophilia even though I, and my character are adults? Any advice or insight would be greatly appreciated.
Thank you for your time.