I know it has been brought up before about people hating on us but this put me off.
I was on youtube when I found a video blog by someone and she sprouted her hate on us. As I read the comments and watched more of her videos I realized I had read her blog and recognized her. While I like learning about incontinence and the reality of it, her attitude puts me off and I felt huge disappointment. It makes it harder for me to learn with bitter attitudes about us. I will learn about incontinence elsewhere. Someone who isn't black and white and generalizes being all AB/DLphobic and think we are damaging and mock people with it. I didn't even bother to try and educate her since I saw others had tried doing so, including IC AB/DLs and the fact she only finds it acceptable if we had suffered child abuse and trauma but other than that, she hates us unless you are an abuse victim. She also made it clear she will not change her mind so I see no point in trying to educate her.
Oh the irony is killing me and I am glad that other people had called her out on it. She wants acceptance for her medical condition but she doesn't have any herself about us.
I wonder how she feels about diaper lovers. I did leave a comment to her AB hate video because I was curious about a couple things and said I find it hard to learn with her attitude and I am disappointed because I had enjoyed her blog. Now I will see her blog or her videos and not view her as the same nor what she advocates and what she says. In fact I will just turn away from her and go somewhere else.
Haters will hate. But at least she doesn't troll our blogs or our forums.