So I'm mildly incontinent (as in, I may have an accident or two or three once every 1 or 2 weeks), and I wear pull ups as a solution. I'm wearing Tena underwear for women. The problem is, they tend to bunch up and look goofy around my crotch, and they make my butt look too unnatural. Spandex doesn't seem to really help. Plus they come up kinda high. These also tend to kinda shift around during the day and get kinda annoying (the leg cuffs aren't snug at all).
Are there any other pull up brands that can be recommended? I prefer pull ups because I can usually make it to the restroom, but a pad wont work because when I have accidents, I can't stop them and they're usually too big for a pad.