Looking for suggestions for wearing to professional conventions. I do take lots of road trips where diapers come in handy for driving long distances but I usually wore cheap ones because that's all I had. I'd take it off in the car after I got where I was going and put a fresh one on when I got in to go home, since it wouldn't hold more than 2-3 wettings without leaking.
My question is: Is there a diaper I could just leave on for the business day (~8-10 hours) that wouldn't make me waddle like a toddler when wet and hold up to 4 wettings for the drives? Or am I better off just wearing for the drives up and back? I do plan to use the toilets when I'm there anyway, but have nowhere private to change diapers as the toilets are all very public lol. Also, I don't have sensitive skin. In case that matters for duration.
I've been wearing Molicare Super Plus but I feel like those might swell too much and be... noticible... at the business meetings. Or am I paranoid? Thanks!