I never wear diapers to work, but I do like to wear pull-ups and pads. My favorite pull-ups are the Depend RealFit, which fit great and perform okay if you only release a little at a time.
My favorite pads are the Abena Abri-man Formula 2, which are thick and are wider than any pads I've tried. They hold a lot, though they're not cheap.
Yesterday I stumbled across something new: The Abri-Man Special. Special? I like special. They seem like they're designed for people with fecal incontinence, but that means the pad goes through the crotch and up the back at least a little. That could be handing for wicking.
The problem is that there is precious little information about this item out there, and I'm beginning to think it's just a renamed version of the Abri-San Special.
Can anyone shed any light on this?