Apologies if this has already been addressed in other threads but I couldn't find them.
I'm sure I'm not the only one in this forum who's not shaped like an average human. I'm 5'11", weigh 126lbs and am build like a bean-pole so as you can imagine my waist is pretty small (28 inches but who's counting). This makes sizing for things pretty difficult.
So my question is how should a diaper sit ideally? Should the the waistband of a diaper be above the bellybutton or below it? Despite the excellent guides on the forum, I'm still unsure about all this.
Being limited to Cuddlz diapers, I have the choice of Medium (30-38 inches waist) or Large (34-56 inches). I've tried the large size Cuddlz before and the tapes end up almost touching each other as I have to haul it in so much. Medium fits my waist fine but when I'm excited the end of my equipment almost pokes out of the waistband. It makes me too concerned to try anything for fear of instant leaks.
A fairly newbie question to ask but as you can see from my post count, I'm not very confident about sharing private things (hence all the beating around the bush above). But I'd really like to talk with others who share my problem and/or build and can share their experiences.