Okay so I'm having a personal issue and I'd like some advice. A friend of mine i really care about occasionally drinks and rationally speaking I know it's not often or much, but for some reason it really bothers me. I am struggling to make it not bother me because it really shouldn't. Firstly I drink occasionally far less often than she does, but still I'm guilty of the same crime. Secondly other people I know drink so why the hell does the fact this one person does bother me so so much. Thirdly I know she's smart about it and she has learned the hard way the safest amount to drink ect.... So I'm just looking for some advice because I'm bothered by the fact and i feel like I shouldn't be but I can't shake it.