I've been thinking a lot about what gender I truly identify with and my sexuality. I feel like I'm both male and female and I like girls and sometimes when my feminine side is showing I may find a guy cute. My issue is I want to appear more gender neutral and appear as both genders or at least be able to walk around as a girl comfortably. I don't feel comfortable around my friends switched because most of them see it as being gay even though I'm straight. Even around my gay friends I don't really feel comfortable being "out." How can I become more comfortable?