So for a long time now i have been trying to make new female friends.
This year alone i lost the women i love to something she thought i did was wrong and i lost a good female friend due to her boyfriend asking her to stop being my friend.
I have been trying different sites and it's been tough.
Tried fetlife and mainly the women on there seem to be jerks towards guys and i guess i get it most of the men on there can be creepy and weird but most dont want to give a guy a chance. The women that do i have found only 2% of them are nice and stable the others have problems when a women ask me if im ok with the fact she has a secret relationship with her half brother thats where i think maybe its not me but them.
I tired ChristianMingle and i ask to be friends and get to know them and they get to know me and i get messages always i dont think were a good fit.
How does a brief profile tell them that im not a good fit as a friend.
Frankly im not a huge fan on having guy friends. Its more the competition side of guys bragging about what they got or can do that makes it hard for me to be friends with them.
I think having women friends can help a guy become a better man.
Also part of me just needs to see that more women can accept me for who i am. I guess deep down being into diapers i feel like not many women will accept me for that and it scares me.
Its hard making new female friends with all these things i have experienced. Im not sure how i go about doing it these day. Any advice you ladies have will be helpful and i thank you for it.
Thank you for taking the time in reading this and for any responses. God Bless